http://eric.clst.org/mystery/archives/1047 efc Fri, 18 Sep 2009 01:02:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc http://eric.clst.org/mystery/archives/1047/comment-page-1#comment-60 hessma Mon, 11 May 2009 22:57:40 +0000 http://eric.clst.org/mystery/?p=1047#comment-60 Keep in mind that my "horrified look" had, in part, to do with the kids he was accompanying over there. Had it been his friends from Harambee, I wouldn't have made quite the same fuss! But you're right, I'm much more conscious of the danger, real or imagined, and my rule of thumb tends to be not to let him do stuff that -- if something bad happened -- I would beat myself up about. Your argument helps take the edge off of the "beating myself up," but only the edge... Keep in mind that my “horrified look” had, in part, to do with the kids he was accompanying over there. Had it been his friends from Harambee, I wouldn’t have made quite the same fuss! But you’re right, I’m much more conscious of the danger, real or imagined, and my rule of thumb tends to be not to let him do stuff that — if something bad happened — I would beat myself up about. Your argument helps take the edge off of the “beating myself up,” but only the edge…

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